Posted by Goblin
So. I have a staggering, shocking announcement, people. I AM
GOING TO DISCUSS A FILM I LIKE. This isn’t quite as unusual as it may appear.
It’s more that usually films I love come with caveats: see Dragon Tattoo, for
example, which I was terribly excited about. The vast majority of contemporary
cultural output, particularly American cultural output, comes with problematic
ideologies as standard. So I’ve become the person that comes out of what friends consider a perfectly enjoyable film (Stardust, say, or Up) and writes
the kind of review that loses one friends, acquaintances, and to date at least
one lover.
But.
A few days ago, I saw A Dangerous Method, part of the story of Sabina Spielrein, pioneering psychologist, patient and confidant of Jung and Freud, and (probably) Jung’s mistress at the turn of the nineteenth century. (Good biographical overview here). Focusing on her relationship with Jung and Freud, we follow her as she arrives hysterical, becomes an experimental subject for Jung’s new talking therapy, recovers, becomes a psychologist in her own right, becomes Jung’s (kinky) lover, is heartbroken when he has a crisis of conscience and leaves her; forces him to confess to Freud; breaks his heart in turn when she travels to Vienna to study under Freud; becomes an authority in her own right; marries; and leaves for Russia to set up her own practice. There were *so*many ways this film cd’ve gone wrong. Primarily, in making Sabina the passive tool of great men without ideas or intiative in her own right – but also in objectifying her, sexualising her ‘madness’ and vulnerability, polarising kindly Jung and bad clinic (which didn’t happen); distinguishing the kinky sex scenes as what *weird* people do (instead of as loving interactions, which are *fucking hot* by the way); presenting her victimhood as her appeal.
Doing any of that would have been all too easy given an
early c20th cultural context; perhaps one of the many impressive qualities of
the film is that they *didn’t* do this, didn’t play to contemporary prejudice
with an ‘eew, look how badly those Edwardians treated their women, isn’t it
great everything’s all fine and equal now’, schtick. Whilst our first sight of Sabina
is indeed as a screaming woman in a white dress being physically manhandled
into the clinic, not only is Jung kindly and completely non-judgmental upon her
arrival, treating her calmly and with respect, but even when she causes trouble
– messing around with food, running away to swim in the pond, screaming at
people – she is treated kindly, fairly and as a responsible human being.
(Frankly, given my own experiences with contemporary MH inpatient units, this
is something from which modern psych wards could learn something.)
Further, partly thanks to a brilliant performance by
Knightley, Sabina’s neurosis, or psychosis, is anything but erotic. She jerks
uncontrollably, in angular, aggressive, defensive movements; her spidery limbs
alternately wrench themselves into a protective cage around her body and lurch
loose. Her face is distorted, lower jaw jutting, voice stuttering, eyes frantic
and face often smeared with tears or mud. As Sabina recovers, these mannerisms
become less pronounced, but are still evident at moments of crisis, her shamed (and
moving) confession to profound sexual masochism both apotheosis and swansong.
Following this confession (and the two-year hiatus in the film’s chronology),
the recovered Sabina is refreshingly and profoundly self-possessed. After an initial
breakdown at Jung leaving her the first time, she gathers herself, informs him
that (essentially) she is worth more than this and he ‘can’t treat her this way’,
writes to an initially disbelieving and patronising Freud, and forces Jung to ‘tell
the truth’. (Freud’s still patronising, but never mind.) From that point on, as
well as an intellectual equal, her emotional self-possession (NOT that this
should be taken as an index of worth or strength; it is the passionate
emotional and intellectual self-expression of both Sabina and Jung that makes
them so attractive as characters, to me at least) is equal to or greater than
that of the men concerned: after their second period as lovers, it is Jung who
is distraught, sobbing in her lap in a pleasing mirror image of her earlier
sobbing in his after their first parting. She matures visibly over the course
of the film, being markedly more together than a saddened and wistful Jung by
the last scene, and possessed of considerable professional and personal confidence.
Moreover, her relationship with Jung post-recovery is emphatically
one of equals. They share ideas (often at Sabina’s initiative), take an equal
part in conversations (without any obvious ‘young Sabina asks, wise authority
Jung answers’ pattern, despite the obvious space to construct such dynamics out
of their relationship),and obviously socialise as friends as well as/rather
than doctor and patient, although wider public opinion of such behaviour goes –
again, refreshingly – undiscussed. For example: out on a boat trip, Sabina
raises the subject of Wagner’s operas, explaining her passion for them and her
ideas about relevant psychological tropes, discussing (for the first time in
the film: a hugely significant psychological concept, and it’s Sabina’s, not
Jung’s or Freud’s) the connection between sexual/romantic impulses and the
death wish. Jung responds by saying (I’m paraphrasing!) ‘How extraordinary, I’ve
been thinking about Wagner recently!’; Sabina responds with a) a directly
challenging question (‘Which is your favourite opera?’) and b) when he responds
with her choice, confidently echoing him and giving reasons, before we cut to a
scene where a room of subjects listen to the opera. Sabina (foreground)
scribbles notes; Jung (background) just listens. It shouldn’t be this unusual
to see the development of a relationship in this way, with the woman
demonstrating both agency and initiative, but it really is; never mind that in
this case a) we’re in early c20th Europe and b) the male in the case is not
only a recognised psychological authority but the woman’s therapist and doctor.
If I hadn’t been so busy enjoying the film, I’d’ve fallen off my cinema seat.
How they get together, too, is mutual. They’re talking in
impassioned tones; Sabina bemoans her lack of sexual experience and kisses
Jung; he makes some comment about how he thought the man was meant to take the
initiative (without, ftr, implying that this was definitively the case), and
she says ‘well, if you ever want to take the initiative, I live up there, with
the bay window,’ and walks off. He agonises at length for a few scenes, and
then knocks on the door. They kiss (note the intransitive verb there.) Dot dot
dot.
Except, not dot dot dot, because this is me, and I damn well
want to talk about kink. Sabina’s confessing to being profoundly and sensually masochistic
since childhood is the catalyst for her recovery. It’s noticeable that Jung –
as always, and I’ll come to this – in his role as psychological authority, is
completely accepting of and non-judgemental about this.[1] Whilst their first
encounter is seen only briefly, more in introduction and aftermath than
process, several times subsequently there’s BDSM involved. Jung spanks Sabina
over a sofa (AND SHE COMES! IN A MAINSTREAM FILM, SOMEBODY COMES FROM SPANKING!
ZOMG! HAVE THE PEOPLE BEEN TOLD?); she begs him to ‘punish me’; she’s tied to
the bed with one belt and being beaten with another (and ZOMG this scene is
hot. I came over all peculiar.) Several points to be made here.
1) this is not portrayed as weird, alarming,
unusual, symptomatic of dysfunction or abuse, reason to not empathise with the
characters or anything else; just a normal and natural part of their
relationship. Hard to overemphasise just how revolutionary this is.
2) Sabina’s kink is by no means held to reduce her
standing in any other sphere, be it intellectual or social. She is still
portrayed as a highly intelligent student, original theorist (explaining ideas
to both Jung and Freud), and an eminently competent psychologist, and
pioneering ideas are attributed to and explained by her. She may also happen to
be a masochist, but HER CHARACTER IS NOT DEFINED BY THIS OR BY ANY OTHER ASPECT
OF HER SEXUALITY (save, perhaps, her heterosexuality; but then, that’s historical
record, and whilst the making of films based on het love stories is undoubtedly
a representational issue, at least this is het, quite possibly open – the critical
jury is out on whether Jung’s wife knew of his infidelity first with Spielrein
and later with Toni Wolfe, but there’s at least a suggestion in the film that
she did – and kinky, right?)
3) Jung does not treat Sabina as anything other
than an intellectual equal when not in a sexual context. Whilst there is
absolutely nothing wrong with negotiated 24/7 D/s dynamics, rarely if ever is
such negotiation shown in films portraying such a dynamic
(*cough*Secretary*splutter*). The assumption that D/s must mean 24/7, that just
because he spanks Sabina Jung must always be dominant and authoritative towards
her, that kink has to be the only defining feature of any relationship in which it
takes place, is pernicious, ultimately damaging, and common in mainstream reps of
BDSM, and it simply doesn’t happen here.
4) Their relationship is loving and mutual. BDSM
activity is clearly pleasing to both parties, and Sabina’s inner psychological
drive towards it – and enjoyment of it – are a fundamental part of the film. See
point 1.
5) Sabina’s masochism is asserted as predating –
rather than being a result of – her childhood beatings by her father. Kink is
not necessarily the result of abuse! Who Knew!
6) The scenes are hot. Well, OK, that may be just
me, but I still feel it’s an important point. They’re loving, connected,
consensual and full of tender savagery. Mmm.
Oh, and finally. Not disconnectedly. JUNG. I’ll try
to rein in my enthusiasm here, because I’m well aware that part of the reason I
liked the film and the story so much was because of my personal response to
Jung’s character (and also to MICHAEL FASSEBENDER DOING VICTORIAN DOM, ohgod,
but that’s my, er, problem.)[2] I felt his representation to be incredibly well
managed, at least within the context of the film’s limited narrative arc. As a
therapist, he is quiet, centred, undramatic, unsuggestive, and completely
non-judgemental. We’re in the early c20th, and he quite calmly asks a distraught
girl half his age ‘were you naked?’ (‘yes’) ‘Were you masturbating?’ (‘yes’). And
it’s not an issue, he’s not aroused by it or moved by it, he shows no personal
reaction to such information at all, in marked and respectable contrast to,
say, ‘In Treatment’ , where Gabriel Byrne’s therapist’s insertion of
personal (as in, related to self not to
patient) emotional response and involvement into therapeutic sessions is
incredibly jarring and grossly unprofessional. Even during her frantic,
self-loathing confession of masochism, he remains focused on *her* emotional
state when in a therapeutic role. Even when Sabina arrives at the clinic,
evidently severely mentally ill, he treats her calmly, respectfully, with
understanding and explanation and trust, recognising her personhood (eg, her long-held
ambition to be a doctor) by offering her responsible work in his clinic. He relates to her as a person, not an illness; he trusts
her, and she responds by working carefully and successfully for him.
In a sense, Jung in
this film makes a damn fine example of the good sides of D/s. To a certain
extent, I know, I’m probably projecting: after all, the most attractive
qualities to me, bar none and in order, are understanding, intelligence and kindness,
which are precisely Fassbender’s Jung’s defining features. But. He’s never
coercive, bullying or domineering; whilst I may not like the crisis of
conscience that initially prompts him to leave Sabina, his method of dealing
with it is at least understandable and doesn’t take advantage of any D/s
dynamic they may have. At all times he treats Sabina with respect, as an
intellectual equal.
I don't know whether it's the film's theatrical origins, or Croenenberg's beautiful, attentive direction, but really I found Dangerous Method remarkably (well, postably!) moving and well-constructed. I haven't seen the play or read the biography, although I will asap (it's based on a play by Christopher Hampton); one criticism my friend made was that it was a bit 'talky', essentially a series of conversations interspersed with kinky sex. My response was, of course, 'Well exactly! What's not to like?!' but then I really like intelligent and verbal films about complex human interactions, and aren't too bothered if there aren't any fight scenes. YMMV. Ultimately, this is a film about two (well, three, but Freud’s
role in all this wd take another 1000 words, which I don’t have time for right
now) highly intelligent, highly emotional, powerfully perceptive, equally respectable individuals
who just happen to fall in love and be kinky sometimes. And that rocks my
fuckin’ universe.
[1] It’s slightly squicky when – prior to their relationship
developing – Jung mentions this to Freud in refutation of one of his theories,
but given that I’m used to the contemporary therapist mentoring system and understand
the reasons for it, I can accept that at this stage Freud is essentially his
mentor and Sabina a successful case. [back]
[2] I blame my mother, a social work student in the late
60s, and my shameless devouring of her bookshelf at far too early an age. Jung
rocks. [back]
"The assumption that D/s must mean 24/7, that just because he spanks Sabina Jung must always be dominant and authoritative towards her, that kink has to be the only defining feature of any relationship in which it takes place, is pernicious, ultimately damaging, and common in mainstream reps of BDSM, and it simply doesn’t happen here."
ReplyDelete"Kink is not necessarily the result of abuse! Who Knew!"
Yay! This actually sounds like a film I'd like to see. I re-watched "Secretary" a few weeks ago and it really rubbed me the wrong way (no pun intended?) for exactly those reasons...
:)So glad! I'd certainly be interested in what you made of it. I think I was too busy being bowled over by a) its lack of ideological headfuckery and b) Jung to notice how good it was as a film or otherwise, and I trust your judgement..
ReplyDeleteThe assumption that D/s must mean 24/7, that just because he spanks Sabina Jung must always be dominant and authoritative towards her, that kink has to be the only defining feature of any relationship in which it takes place, is pernicious, ultimately damaging, and common in mainstream reps of BDSM, and it simply doesn’t happen here.
ReplyDeleteInterestingly, I always found that the London kink scene seemed way too focused on social/domestic D/s - lots of people seemed to have 24/7 arrangements. I like to do fun kinky stuff in the bedroom, I don't want someone telling me what to do all the time.
palmer x